“The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.” -Proverbs 12:15
We live in a world where there is no shortage of advice. Turn on the television, scroll through social media, listen to a podcast, or spend five minutes on the internet and you can find someone willing to tell you how you should live, what you should believe, how you should spend your money, how you should raise your kids, what you should be angry about, and who you should blame for everything that is wrong in the world.
Everyone has an opinion. But having an opinion doesn’t make someone wise. Proverbs 12:15 says, “The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.”
One of the marks of foolishness is believing we already have all the answers. A fool doesn’t ask, “Could I be wrong?” Instead, they assume their way is always the right way. Wisdom, however, begins with humility. Wise people are willing to listen, learn, and be corrected.
Here’s another important question: Who are we taking advice from? Not all advice is good advice. Just because something is popular doesn’t make it true. Just because a post has thousands of likes doesn’t mean it’s filled with wisdom. And just because something is repeated over and over again doesn’t mean it lines up with the heart of God.
James reminds us in James 1:5: “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all….” God’s wisdom isn’t based on trends or public opinion. His truth doesn’t change with the culture because His character never changes. In Matthew 24:35 Jesus said: “Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.”
Every day we have a choice. We can allow the endless voices around us to shape our thinking, or we can allow God’s voice to shape our hearts. One leads to confusion. The other leads to life.
Before we accept someone’s advice, we should ask ourselves: Does it line up with God’s Word? Does it lead me closer to Jesus or further away from Him? The wisest people aren’t those who know the most—they’re the ones who consistently listen to the One who knows all things.
May we seek to spend less time scrolling through everyone else’s opinions and more time sitting at the feet of Jesus. His Word has never failed, His wisdom never changes, and His guidance will never lead us astray.
